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Toby. He/they. 33. gender? i barely know her.

tumbling through the super-hell that america is rn.



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  • sammyonfire:

    secondbeatsongs:

    somehow instead of saying “as a treat”, I’ve started using the phrase “for morale”, as if my body is a ship and its crew, and I (the captain) have to keep us in high spirits, lest we suffer a mutiny in the coming days.

    and so I will eat this small block of fancy cheese, for morale. I will take a break and drink some tea, for morale. I will pick up that weird bug, for morale.

    I’m not sure if it helps, but it does entertain me

    @focsle

    (via ich-versteh-euch-nicht)

    • 4 hours ago
    • 31971 notes
    • #tonight we dine in hell! (for morale)
  • queerasaurus-rexx:

    terfs keep mentioning the % of autistics who are trans/nb and that we’re ‘brainwashed’

    and because i’m an asshole, i decided to look into why so many autistic folks are trans/nb. it’s not an inaccurate statement, at least the first half, but terfs lie through their teeth so i decided to get to the scientific root of it.

    the answer blew my fucking mind.

    the study on gender and autism i found said two very specific things about autistic people: we are more mentally resistant to things like social conditioning and binarism. we like our secret third things, y'know.

    an excerpt:

    “The finding that non-binary identities are most elevated seems to support hypotheses focussed on autistic resistance to social conditioning, which are consistent with existing evidence of the same effect with respect to self-description of sexual orientation. Perhaps elevated rates of trans identity in autism might result from a rejection of the binary cisgenderist norm, which combined with a below-typical concern for social norms could promote the disclosure of the identity.”

    94% of autistics surveyed for that paper identified themselves as non-binary.

    other studies have found autistic people have higher levels of critical thinking, and require more evidence to maintain or convert to a belief system (hence why many of us eventually fall away from religion) than allistic people.

    which means, at least from my perspective, that:

    a) the 'brainwashing’ terfs are accusing the trans community of inflicting on autistic folks would likely not even work if they tried.

    b) the current binary definition of gender flies directly against embedded autistic modes of thinking to begin with.

    you cannot brainwash someone into thinking something they already believe.

    (via vigilantsycamore)

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  • rose-coloured-bi:

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    (via mr-sensitve)

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  • foone:

    Does anyone remember what happened to Radio Shack?

    They started out selling niche electronics supplies. Capacitors and transformers and shit. This was never the most popular thing, but they had an audience, one that they had a real lock on. No one else was doing that, so all the electronics geeks had to go to them, back in the days before online ordering. They branched out into other electronics too, but kept doing the electronic components.

    Eventually they realize that they are making more money selling cell phones and remote control cars than they were with those electronic components. After all, everyone needs a cellphone and some electronic toys, but how many people need a multimeter and some resistors?

    So they pivoted, and started only selling that stuff. All cellphones, all remote control cars, stop wasting store space on this niche shit.

    And then Walmart and Target and Circuit City and Best Buy ate their lunch. Those companies were already running big stores that sold cellphones and remote control cars, and they had more leverage to get lower prices and selling more stuff meant they had more reasons to go in there, and they couldn’t compete. Without the niche electronics stuff that had been their core brand, there was no reason to go to their stores. Everything they sold, you could get elsewhere, and almost always for cheaper, and probably you could buy 5 other things you needed while you were there, stuff Radio Shack didn’t sell.

    And Radio Shack is gone now. They had a small but loyal customer base that they were never going to lose, but they decided to switch to a bigger but more fickle customer base, one that would go somewhere else for convenience or a bargain. Rather than stick with what they were great at (and only they could do), they switched to something they were only okay at… putting them in a bigger pond with a lot of bigger fish who promptly out-competed them.

    If Radio Shack had stayed with their core audience, who knows what would have happened? Maybe they wouldn’t have made a billion dollars, but maybe they would still be around, still serving that community, still getting by. They may have had a small audience, but they had basically no competition for that audience. But yeah, we only know for sure what would happen if they decided to attempt to go more mainstream: They fail and die. We know for sure because that’s what they did.

    I don’t know why I keep thinking about the story of what happened to Radio Shack. It just keeps feeling relevant for some reason.

    (via phoenixiancrystallist)

    • 5 hours ago
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  • calware:

    i recently noticed that @ jetblackcode created a really interesting tool that lets you see your tumblr stats, one of which is a comparison between the number of notes you’ve gotten on all your posts to the entire userbase! so, i figured a fun reblog game would be to put in your blog and tag which color you got:

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    i’ve colored the buckets on the histogram so that it’s easier to tell where you landed on the graph rather than just using numbers ^_^

    (via local-gay)

    Source: href.li
    • 5 hours ago
    • 20259 notes
    • #yellow
    • #6695 notes
  • theworsethingsgettheharderifight:

    jellybeanium124:

    Hey. Gentiles. Listen up for a sec.

    When September and October are nearing and you’re planning an event: google “Rosh Hashanah *year*” and *Yom Kippur *year*” and then, and I cannot stress this enough, don’t plan your event on those days. In fact, don’t plan any events starting sundown the night before. Those are the three most important days of the Jewish calendar, and, once again, I cannot stress enough how much this little bit of forethought and kindness will make every Jew you know cry tears of joy.

    Rosh Hashanah is September 16th, 2033

    Tom Kippur is September 25th, 2023


    you’ve been told’t

    (via vigilantsycamore)

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  • tributary:

    tributary:

    there are left-wing and right-wing versions of the same bigotry. doesn’t mean they operate the same way. what it does mean is that political affiliation in and of itself is not a get-out-of-jail-free card for being bigoted

    you can’t no true scotsman your way out of this one. you shouldn’t try

    (via vigilantsycamore)

    • 9 hours ago
    • 285 notes
  • thicc-goth-dad:

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  • jcrewguy:

    Warner Bros. Animation and Cartoon Network Production Workers Launch Unionization Effort
    The staffers, who work on projects including 'Batman: Caped Crusader' and 'Adventure Time: Fionna and Cake,' filed for a National Labor Rela
    The Hollywood Reporter
    • 9 hours ago
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  • batmanisagatewaydrug:

    batmanisagatewaydrug:

    @ d&d. gonna start making a thread of pokemon I think are doing drag. primarina is a drag queen for sure she does drag queen story hours and the kids love her she’s so fun

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    gallade is a nonbinary he/they drag king. kind of new to the scene, scrappy, avant garde with it.

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    (via ich-versteh-euch-nicht)

    • 9 hours ago
    • 183 notes
    • #oh gallade is definitely at least gnc if not trans
  • thetreeofliberty:

    dankmemeuniversity:

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    (via randomthingsthatilike1)

    • 9 hours ago
    • 69134 notes
    • #there’s a trans joke in there somewhere
    • #i kept on reading v guys thinking it was a bunch of dudes with a vagina now
  • bootdork:

    How did you come out to friends/family?

    I sat them down and told them straight up

    I made it so obvious that they came to their own conclusion

    I left a written note/email

    Other method (leave in notes)

    I never came out

    Not queer/show results

    (via beaujes)

    • 9 hours ago
    • 6781 notes
    • #i sat them down
    • #both immediate and extended families
    • #the extended family was so terrifying to tell
    • #because my family just doesn’t talk about this stuff usually
    • #there’s some sort of emotional wall they tend to put up
    • #like a wasp family but they’re catholic
    • #so yeah
    • #and that was my gender
    • #still haven’t told them about my sexual orientation
    • #but it’s literally impossible for me to be any kind of straight now so i think they already kniw
    • #still i may have to come out to them yet ANOTHER time if i ever get married or something
    • #sigh
    • #the struggle is real
    • #(that was a joke by the way)
    • #please i know 90% of trans people have it much worse and i’m lucky they were accepting
    • #i still wish they were more comfortable talking about it though
  • loki-zen:

    mattibee:

    mattibee:

    God invented winter so girls could exchange body heat

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    (via fans-on-the-run)

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  • durnesque-esque:

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    This is their plan. They want to break the writers. They want to break this industry and everyone around it for their bottom lines. They do not care about anything, but profit.

    And it will not stop here, it will impact EVERY CONTRACT DOWN THE LINE FOR EVERY UNION IN THE INDUSTRY. And the impact will ripple through every industry in entertainment hubs: LA, NY, ATL, etc.

    “Convinced that “giving in,” as another insider put it, to the writers will result in every contract cycle from the WGA, IATSE, the Teamsters and more ending in a strike, the AMPTP is aiming for the bottom line.”

    Please continue to support the Writers. If SAG-AFTRA joins in tonight, support them too.

    This is not just about the entertainment industry, this is about the impact and power of workers standing together. Everyone in this country is suffering from being underpaid. Unions are our power to fight against that.

    The holdouts are NOT the workers on strike, it’s the Producers & Executives. It’s THEIR fault this is going on. It’s THEIR fault the industry has ground to a halt because they won’t pay fair wages and they would rather use AI to spin endless and souless profit than pay people to do the work.

    Here’s the article I quoted. Here’s another discussing the AI issue.

    July 12, 2023 9AM PST.

    SOLIDARITY FOREVER!

    (via vigilantsycamore)

    • 11 hours ago
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  • @ the WGA

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    • 15 hours ago
    • #wga
    • #wga strike
    • #writers
    • #writing
    • #you are worth more than that
    • #be the union you wish to see in the world
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